highwarlockofphilly:

aphony-cree:

21goblins-in-a-trenchcoat:

terflies:

transmedtwink:

lushbird:

“queer” is such a useless term. if i tell someone im bisexual, they know i am attracted to men and women. if a man tells me he is gay, i know he is a man exclusively attracted to other men. if someone tells me they are queer, it tells me nothing about them. it doesnt tell me who they attracted to. it tells me nothing about that person.

It tells me they’re trying to be a extra lil bitch and that I shouldn’t be friends with them

No, you probably shouldn’t, for their sake.

yall realise thats exactly the point, right

queer covers everyone who is noncis or nonstraight

it covers the identities you want to erase or disallow from the community

it doesn’t immediately tell you private information about someone’s sexuality or gender that you aren’t entitled to

and the person in question may not even know themselves, but queer is what they know they can always use if they’re not sure except they know theyre definitely not cis/straight

you hate it because it’s too inclusive and too broad. It’s supposed to be inclusive and broad. If someone tells you they’re queer then all you need to know is that they are in some way not cis or straight and other than that it aint your business. If being told someone’s identity is none of your business pisses you off, thats a you problem

Imagine saying you wont be friends with someone unless they disclose all details of their gender and orientation immediately upon meeting you and still feeling that you’re morally superior 

Some freak: Who do you wanna fuck?

Me: Don’t worry about it.

Some freak: Great now I know to stay away from you you fucking weirdo I need to know what genitals everyone has and what they plan to do with them because I’m a nasty gremlin and people are obligated to disclose all of their personal information to me

Because non straight relationships are all about fucking, right? Why are you guys turning this into “it’s for privacy!!! why should we share that information!?!?” GEE YOU’RE RIGHT, NO ONE SHOULD COME OUT! WE SHOULD ALL STAY IN OUR LITTLE CLOSETS AND KEEP OUR DEVIANT SEXUALITIES TO OURSELVES. you sound like a bunch of fucking conservatives. no one is saying to need to unload that information FIRST THING TOP PRIORITY #1 as soon as you meet someone, but if someone tells me they’re “queer” i’m not going to take their position on LGB issues as seriously as i would of they told me they were gay or bi. asexuals use queer, demisexual losers use queer, straight men who date bi girls use queer. i’m a fucking lesbian.