anti-kink:

delia day was a woman who was forced into a bdsm relationship and had her husband force her to get tattoos, piercings, brandings, scarrings, and ran an entire website impersonating her where he posted her naked photos and had a subscription option for even more nsfw posts of his abused wife. no one suspected, because for bdsm, its just another normal day to see a woman chained up and hit. she was under such distress she shot and killed her piece of shit “master” of a husband to let her and her children be free of him.

burnd brandes was a man who met up with another man on a vore/cannibalism forum in real life. him and the man he met up with outwardly and publicly planned his murder and the people on the forum did nothing about it. he was killed. then eaten. you really don’t want to know the rest.

I could go on. real life assaults have happened due to rape fetishism. real life pedophilia has happened due to loli/con. real fat people have married fat fetishists who presumed to feed them and encourage them to eat until they died. when is it enough? what, exactly, is the precise body count, the exact number of lives ruined and people traumatized that will convince people that violent kink is inherently poisonous? when will you admit that it affects reality when some people’s reality have literally come to an end because of it?